All my in-laws get a big laugh when they talk about the connection between me and my brother-in-law Raymond. Met my husband 5 years ago and spent 3 1/2 years moving with him while in the Air Force. The first time I met his oldest brother Raymond was 6 months ago when we moved back home. For 2 years, prior to meeting my husband, Doctor Raymond was my gynecologist. At the time I had a lot of trouble down there and blush every time I see him. Just guessing I received a gyno exam from him about every month for over a year. These exams are now more embarrassing then they were at the time. He not only did pap tests but each time speculums were used. He also examined me rectally many times and numerous times examined my breasts. Now my husband even thinks its funny. Thankfully Raymond is mum about it and never mentions it. My sister-in-law is the worst about bringing it up and always does at awkward times. The family last name is one of the most common so I never made a connection between my husband and Raymond since Raymond is 14 years older than my husband. NOT FUNNY.